Child Welfare in the 21st Century

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Lessons from Adrian Peterson

Posted by lboyd544 on November 19, 2014

It is 6am. I feel embarrassed, sad, and powerless this morning.

Adrian Peterson, purportedly the best running back in the country,…and undisputed the best running back in the country if you are from Oklahoma….is suspended from pro football for the remainder of this season.

Yes. Sad because his little boy was injured by his Dad’s disciplinary actions with a switch. Sad trying to imagine the impact of this national attention and the suspension on the lifelong relationship between Dad and son. Sad that Adrian really didn’t see the severity of his actions against the boy….maybe because he was raised the same way.

Embarrassed. Embarrassed that I feel sad, because I really like Adrian and everything else I know about him, and I won’t get to watch his amazing athletic prowess this season. Embarrassed that the country and multi-million dollar sponsors of Adrian are outraged about this incident, yet not equally outraged or invested financially in the hundreds of thousands of incidents annually when other children are abused at the hands of a parent or other adult, …too many to the point of their deaths.

Powerless. Powerless to know how to move people’s hearts to reach out to educate those caring for children and help them be healthier caretakers. Powerless to tap the hearts of couples and parents who could provide foster care and/or respite for children (and their parents) when a child’s needs for safety and permanency cannot be met at home. Powerless to find the words for large businesses and successful companies who could do so much more to feed hungry families, to hire fathers and mothers who need a decent job or a second and third chance, to support before and after school programs and community youth organizations, or to mentor just one child not in their own bloodline!

I am grateful for all those who do care: who pray, who legislate, who open their wallets and their homes, and who follow the Bible’s instructions to care for the poor, the widow and the orphan, however those terms fit this 21st Century world.

Yet today, whether outraged at Adrian Peterson and his actions or at the NFL and its decision, there is a truth we must hear and acknowledge: there is much more to be done and much more each of us can do.

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